Whips & Cracks! How whips can add pleasure to any gay sex experience.

As the saying goes, ‘no pain, no gain’, in this case it’s attached to sex. Bringing extreme antics into the bedroom won’t be for every gay couple, but for those to whom it does apply, there are a plethora of reasons why whips could be the place to start for your naughty bedroom pleasures. However, it’s important that there’s mutual consent by both parties so you’re on the same page and you know what’s acceptable and what’s not. Having a safe word in this type of sex play is very important so you have a way of halting sex instantly if things go further than you’re comfortable with. Whips are usually associated with the more extreme types of sex, think BDSM, control, fetishes, restraint, gags, ropes and masks. But they can also be used in any way that you choose; maybe a little, maybe a lot. And once you have the basics of the sex play decided, then your fun can begin!

Why use a whip?

The general reason is to inflict pain on your partner, but whips are more normally used during specific sexual situations. Imagine this: you’re the master and your partner is the slave, purely there for your own sexual gratification. Your leather trousers are tight, there’s handcuffs at the ready and your slave knows what he should be doing. But he’s disobedient. He’s not doing as he should. Well, you know a way to sort this out. Crack! One stroke of the whip across his back. Your slave whimpers in pain but still doesn’t comply. Crack! The second lash over his naked buttocks. You hold the whip and the power to make your slave behave himself.

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But if role play isn’t your thing, then there are still plenty of ways to incorporate whips into your sexual life. Perhaps your partner enjoys the red hot sting of a whip lash. Perhaps he needs that pain in order to orgasm. Or maybe it’s you who needs it, maybe your fantasies revolve around being the recipient of pain. For pleasure/pain beginners there are other, less extreme, forms of inflicting pain. A wide, leather paddle is ideal for testing the waters before your graduate to a whip. A cat o’ nine tails is something that goes beyond a standard whip, should you fancy something a little more painful than it can offer you. It’s horses for courses in this game and your use of sexual aids is something that’s totally down to you.

You don’t need to be into extreme sex to enjoy a whip. Maybe it’s just in hand, or in sight of your slave/partner as a gentle reminder that they need to behave themselves. You may want to gently drag the whip slowly over your partner’s body, along his shoulders and down to his crack. He could be blindfolded and not have a clue what you’re going to do next. Anticipation can heighten sexual pleasure enormously.

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So why delay! Get that whip sorted out today to take you to ever increasing levels of sexual satisfaction and if you need someone to give you more tips or personal instruction then post a gay personal on gayscene.org today.