Don’t Cum Too Quick! Ways To Slow Down & Enjoy Casual Gay Sex

As a perpetually horny gay guy you’ll definitely appreciate that a quickie certainly has its perks. Slowing down the pace, however, allows you to enjoy a sexual experience that is limited only by your imagination.

Great Slow Gay Sex

Great casual or monogamous gay sex really can be lustful, sensual and intimate.

Set The Scene

To enjoy a passionate night of sex that goes on and on, it’s essential that you make some effort in setting the scene. Whether you’re hooking up with a sexy gay escort for casual sex or planning to enjoy a hot date with a long-term lover, the scene that you set plays a big part in your overall mood and enjoyment.

When entertaining at home, clean your place from top to bottom and make sure that you have fresh bedlinen. Light some candles to create a romantic atmosphere and select a suitable playlist to get you in the mood.

Gay Sex Foreplay Fun

Want to create a more intimate and pleasurable sexual experience? Spend a little extra time having foreplay fun.

To make gay sex last longer, you need to start with slow and tantalising touching and kissing that excites and leaves your partner wanting more. Don’t be in a hurry to move to 2nd base. Take your time fumbling, fondling, caressing, and exploring each other with your hands, lips and tongues.

Mutual Masturbation

If you’re a horny gay guy who masturbates regularly, you’ve probably built up quite a stamina for longer lasting sex. Take foreplay to the next level, by indulging in pleasurable mutual masturbation. You’ll have an opportunity to practise the tantric stop-start technique by easing up on stimulation just before you peak. Taking it to the edge, and abruptly stopping, has the power to intensify the ejaculation sensation when you eventually give yourself the green light. In the meantime, distract yourself mentally by thinking about something mundane.

Tantric Training

Tantra is an ancient technique that combines energy and breath work with tantalising touch. When you’re looking for ways to pace yourself, so that you don’t cum too quick, it’s a good idea to practice tantric training.

Breathe in deeply for the count of 5 seconds and breathe out slowly for an extended count of 6. Imagine the in breath as potent sexual energy that you’re drawing in.

As you practised during mutual masturbation, cease all stimulation at the point of climax. Feel the warmth of sexual energy circulating in your body, by visualising pulling it in from the tip of your penis. The more you practice these techniques, the easier it will be for you to control when you cum.

Other Delaying Tactics

You can also use thicker condoms that decrease sensation and delay ejaculation, or a delay spray that temporarily desensitises your dick.

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