First Time Anal Sex Tips for Men

Anal sex is amazing, but like everything if this is your first time then you may want some tips to get your started and demystify the whole process. Online gay hook up sites like www.gayscene.org are great for finding someone to enjoy great gay sex with, but it can be a little daunting if it is your first time.

Here are our tips:

Ensure You Are Emotionally Ready – If this is your first time for anal sex, ensure you are feeling ready. Not all anal virgins are young, many have stayed in the closet for years before embarking on trying this fantastic sex experience so ensure this is the right time for you.

Forget the Labels – Not all men who love anal sex with other men identify as gay and that’s OK. However you identify gay, bi, or just exploring your sexuality, anal sex is and always will be amazing. Leave the labels at the door and just enjoy the experience.

Stop Thinking It’s Like Porn – Porn is amazing, but it is a fantasy and has very little to do with the real-life experience. Real life is messier, weirder, but undeniably better than porn. There is nothing quite like the feel of a man running his hands all over your body before pushing his hard cock inside you to make you squirm with pleasure.

Take Your Time – As it is your first time, it is unlikely to be the best anal sex you will ever have, you will however have that to look forward to. Take your time and enjoy kissing, oral sex and perhaps a hand job before trying anal sex to help you relax.

Practice at Home – Dildo’s are amazing and if you have the time and space, experimenting at home with anal training aids or a nice realistic dildo will really help you relax when you take in your first real cock.

Being Unsure is Fine – Remember that as this is your first time you are unlikely to know exactly what you like or how you like it so explore lots of different ways to have anal sex and then decide what you like best.

Bottoming Can Hurt – Remember that while anal sex is amazing it can hurt, so take it slow and use lots and lots and lots, of yes, and then some more lube! Don’t be afraid to ask to take a break and keep trying – believe us, it is worth it.

Ask About Terminology – There are terms used often when it comes to anal sex such as bottoming and top, if you are unsure about what is being asked, then simply ask, your partner will explain and then you can choose what it is you are doing.

Condoms are Key – Remember safe sex is extremely important so ensure you have a stack of condoms ready to go in case your partner has forgotten theirs.

Anal Sex is Amazing

Hooking up on Gayscene is just the start of an amazing sexual journey, remember to have fun, do things at your own pace, remember you sex life is no one else’s business and enjoy that first experience of a cock up your bum – there really is nothing better!