Am I Big Enough? Penis Size Queries for Gay Men

Gay Sex is a big part of most men’s lives and often men are a little insecure about their gay sex experience and the age-old question of Does Penis Size Matter? Or is what you do with it that counts?

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Fortunately, as we will discuss below, most men have nice average size penises, and they can have the same great sex as those who are better endowed. As ever you can find awesome men to have great sex with on www.GayScene.Org

Gay Sex & Cock Size

Most men, at some point in their lives, have suffered hang-ups about the size of their penis; however, it’s really the media which we should be blaming for this, inundating us with portrayals, in adverts, of guys smuggling huge packages below – and apportioning some measure of blame, of course, towards the pornographic industry. Notwithstanding, the reality of it is simply this: that most men pretty much average out with regards to size and girth. Of course, ethnicity also plays a part – as some guys are more naturally predisposed to being somewhat on the larger side, but nevertheless, this doesn’t mean they will perform any better than those who tend to fall under average size and girth.

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When we are talking about penis size, it can come down to individual preference; some people may like to be overwhelmed with glee by the prospect of unzipping a twelve-inch monster, whereas others would run as quick as they possibly could in the opposite direction! Research has also shown us that those in secure relationships tend to overestimate the size of their lover’s penis, proving that it really does come down to what you do with it – there is far more to great sex than the size of your manhood: “Wham! Bam! Thank you, man!” can be all well and good and all that in the heat of the moment, but gay sex, as a whole, is a thoroughly sensory experience.

Gay Sex is More than Size

So, never let a shadow of doubt pass your mind that you should feel self-conscious about the size of your cock, as it really is contingent upon other factors. Of course, if it is such a big deal for you, you should keep in mind that there are devices available which can help lengthen your penis – and those which create vacuums allowing you to increase its girth.

Don’t be intimidated by some of the guys you may see in porn films, they’re in that occupation for a reason, after all… there’s just as much pressure on guys to perform to a certain idealised standard as there is women for to conform to a certain size and guideline for fashion – and what is considered “hot!”; it’s just that you don’t hear about men’s anxieties and concerns quite as frequently –  which is an injustice within itself.

Cocks are all shapes and sizes!

If there is one essential bit of advice that I could share with any guy, regarding sex, then it would be this: try and leave all apprehensions at the door – and just go with it. If it feels right to you, and you are enjoying yourself, then relax – and let pleasure take over; don’t overthink things. Sex comes naturally to us all, so cherish what you’ve been given… and use it wisely!