How to Write your Gay Personal

In theory, writing your Gay Personal Ad should be quick and painless; just write a little about yourself and what you are looking for and you’re done. In reality, how you fill out the ad can have dramatically different results. Not everyone wants the same thing, and all those subtle little differences are what people subconsciously and consciously pick up on and react to.

Tips for Posting a Gay Personal

Here are some tips for how to advertise yourself in the most truthful and effective manner possible. Then, all that is left to do is enjoy the attention that comes your way.

Honesty is Key

Honesty is the most important aspect of the personal advert and that doesn’t just mean honesty in the ad. Be honest with yourself about why you are there and what you want. Are you telling yourself that you want to find someone for a relationship, but all you can think about is fulfilling all those secret desires that are rolling around in your mind? If you just want sex or fetish fulfilment, be honest because there’s nothing wrong with asking for what you want and after all, we all have sexual desires that need to be met. If you can’t be honest with yourself, you’ll mislead people online and not getting what you really want. So, be honest and go for what you truly want.

Be Descriptive

Don’t be afraid to be as descriptive as you like. It might seem more mysterious to have a vague profile that seems open to anything, but it is much sexier to be confident in what you want. Do you want casual sex? Say so and get into the details. Are you there to fulfil other guy’s fantasies? What guy wouldn’t love that? Be honest and get into as much detail as you can and the response, you’ll get will be fantastic. If you still aren’t quite sure what you want, say so and the guys will love your honesty and your open-mindedness.

Photos Help

The photos you put up are very important, as we are all very visual people and let’s be honest, some guys won’t even read your profile before they’ve made a judgement based on your pictures. Add as many photos as you can but think clearly about what these photos say about you. If your profile says you want a relationship, but your pictures are all abs, biceps, and buns you’ll be giving a very different impression. Also consider who else is in your photo. Profile photos with other people can be very confusing and if a guy spends too long trying to work out which person in the photo is you, the photo has failed. You need to have at least one photo that is just of you, preferably one that shows a realistic portrayal of you. Selfie angles are tempting, but honest photos make an honest profile.

Find What You Want

Putting yourself out there for everyone to see can feel scary, but your profile is entirely in your control, so don’t be afraid, and confidently ask for what you want from your gay personal and post it on www.gayscene.org today for free!