The Unspoken Rules of a Gay HookUp

Casual gay sex is a joy and gay hook-up sites like GayScene make meeting guys who like what you like really easy! The attraction of being with a new guy on a regular basis of finding a great gay escort to explore your fetishes with are what gay personals are great at! But, what if you have never used a gay hook up site before and are unsure of what to do or how to act. While there are no hard and fast rules for using these sites, there are some universal unspoken rules that most men apply.

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So, here is a quick overview of the most common unspoken rules when using a gay personals website:

Plan and Prepare

You are on a gay personals website because you are horny and looking for great gay sex so being prepared before you go on will make the whole experience so much easier. Plan for where you will meet, where you will have sex, and who knows where you will be in case of problems. If you are bringing a guy back to your place make sure its clean and tidy, hook ups tend not to be romantic but basic cleanliness is required. Make sure you know where your condoms and lube are, safe sex is always important so don’t get caught out in the lust of it all. If you like sex toys or want to wear your favourite latex or role-playing costume then have them to hand and ready to go.

Hook Ups are Not Dates!

Remember a great hook up is not a date, most guys are not looking for romantic relationships so don’t expect flowers, a cuddle after, a phone number or even a real name! Men want to live the fantasy pr just want quick great sex so don’t add intimacy to your list of things to look for in a hook up. Don’t ask too many personal questions and keep the conversation light, friendly and if you can sexy. No one wants to be misled so be clear when you post your gay personal whether you are looking for just great sex or a boyfriend then no one is disappointed.

Keep It Casual

Unless you have specifically mentioned in your gay personal that you want a whole evening of kinky BDSM, most men just want to have quick great sex and then leave. It is probably not the time to explore your most exciting gay sex fantasies. Go with what seems natural for both of you and not too much on the kink. If you are looking for someone to indulge that kind of fantasy then a gay escort is probably much more appropriate.

The same goes for discussing details about each other, if you are just there for a quick fuck do you want to be grilled about where you live, what you do for a living or want car you drive? Probably not – you don’t just have to talk about the weather but too many personal questions will just be a turn off.

Set Boundaries

Remember you can say no to things that are suggested and be clear about what you like and don’t like, and you will probably have a steamy time. Don’t stay too long afterwards, don’t try and cuddle or ask if they want to go for a drink – they probably don’t. There are of course always exceptions but on the whole leave while the going is good!

No stings attached gay sex is always good, for anything more you should try a gay escort.