Finding A Spank Buddy on a Gay Chat Website

Traditionally associated with corporal punishment, spanking can be an erotic kinky practice, between consenting adults. Many gay men who are into S&M (sadism and masochism) enjoy playful spanking sessions, as they enhance sexual gratification and orgasmic pleasure.

If the thought of having your ass spanked, or smacking someone else’s, turns you on, you can check our gay message board to find a spank buddy who shares your interest.

The Art of Spanking

Spanking isn’t about bending your sex partner over your knees and thrashing their backside. As an erotic experience, spanking involves connecting through sensual touch, and communicating your desires with your partner.

Spanking involves using a hand or paddle to apply playful light slaps on the fleshly area of the bottom. Slow smacks can increase in frequency and intensity or become steady and hard.

Spank Buddy Requirements

If you’re a single gay guy, or your partner doesn’t share your sparking interest, you may get lucky and find a spank buddy on our gay sex message board.

When you’re communicating your desires to other guys, it’s important that you discuss why you want to spank and be spanked, what sensations you enjoy, and which positions you’d like to try. Also, be clear on what implements you want to use, and those that are strictly no-no.

Get in the mood for spanking by sending each other sexts, and video clips of your favourite erotic porn. This will give you a good idea of your spank buddy’s likes and dislikes.

You will also need to agree on a safe word to use once you exceed the boundaries of your spanking comfort zone.

Enjoy A Spanking Date Night

If you’re hooking up with a spank buddy, set the scene by playing sexy music, and having good lighting, in your spanking space. You want to be able to see the spanking in action, as it adds to the eroticism.

It’s a good idea to rearrange the furniture so that you have variety of comfortable places to kneel on, bent over, or lay across. Have pillows and cushions available for kneeling or lifting up bottoms.

If you are having spanking implements in your adult sex toy collection, place them where they are easily accessible. You can use a long or short wooden paddle, a loopy spanking cane, a BDSM rug beater, or a leather or rubber flogger.

Experiment with a range of implements to discover which works best for you. Take turns with your spank buddy, in giving and receiving a good spank.