How do you know if you’re good at Gay Sex?

First of all, to put this in context, ‘good’ is a relative term and ‘gay sex’ covers a broad range of sexual acts. Therefore, it would be very, very difficult to say that someone is definitively ‘good’ or ‘not good’ at gay sex. Right, that’s the theory over with! Ultimately, what matters is your perception of yourself and whether or not you’re happy in the bedroom. Continue…

How to talk to your partner about wanting a threesome

For some, a gay threesome is akin to the holy grail. If you’re an aficionado of multiple partners in the bedroom, then you’ve probably fantasised about it for years – possibly even done it before – but whichever way it’s very likely to have been planned out to some extent with most of the finer details tuned to perfection. Continue…

6 Tips on being a better bottom

Being a bottom is traditionally seen as relinquishing some of the control and letting your top lead the way down whichever sexual path you’re following. But actually, just because you’re below doesn’t mean that you just lie there and take it. In fact, it’s often better for the top if you do seize back some control. Continue…

What is a Gay Muscle Fetish (and where can I find one)?

Definition of fetish (in a sexual sense): ‘A need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement.’

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We’ve all seen the big guys in the gym, lifting improbably size weights and watched their biceps ripple and abs contract. Then he might turn away from you and you see his muscular bottom tensing as he goes at those weights. Some of you might admire his body, some might be in awe of it – but there will always be a few of you, for whom this ‘muscle worship’ is more than just that, it spills over into being a fetish (see definition above). Continue…

Whips & Cracks! How whips can add pleasure to any gay sex experience.

As the saying goes, ‘no pain, no gain’, in this case it’s attached to sex. Bringing extreme antics into the bedroom won’t be for every gay couple, but for those to whom it does apply, there are a plethora of reasons why whips could be the place to start for your naughty bedroom pleasures. However, it’s important that there’s mutual consent by both parties so you’re on the same page and you know what’s acceptable and what’s not. Having a safe word in this type of sex play is very important so you have a way of halting sex instantly if things go further than you’re comfortable with. Whips are usually associated with the more extreme types of sex, think BDSM, control, fetishes, restraint, gags, ropes and masks. But they can also be used in any way that you choose; maybe a little, maybe a lot. And once you have the basics of the sex play decided, then your fun can begin! Continue…

Sexy Leeds – tips on meeting up in this gay-friendly city

Leeds has a reputation in the North of England for being one of the best gay-friendly cities around – and quite deservedly so. Leeds prides itself on having a plethora of LGBT-orientated events, bars, pubs and clubs, just to name a few options. So if you’re looking for somewhere to meet-up and hang out with a cool, chilled LGBT vibe, then this should definitely be at the top of your list. The city has easy links for travelling in from the surrounding areas via bus, train and car on the M1 and M62. Continue…

10 Tips On Being a Better Top

Most gay couples have established positions in the bedroom for how they prefer to have sex. It’s quite a simple formula – one goes on the bottom and one on the top. And yes, those are the names used so there really isn’t anything complicated about this. Each partner has very different roles and it’s usual to swap over occasionally to experience the best of both worlds. But whether you’re used to being a top or not, how can you further improve the experience for the bottom? Continue…

Safety first – tips on staying safe if you’re meeting a new, sexy Valentine this year

Valentines Day is almost upon us. It’s the most universally acknowledged romantic evening of the year and there are plenty of things to do if you’re heading out for a special evening with that special person. Valentines Day is also a perfect time to introduce a new love into your life. But if you’re meeting up with a new, sexy Valentine for the first time this year then there are some rules of engagement that you should bear in mind to keep your evening as fun and hassle-free as possible. Continue…

Heavy Rubber Fetish and Gay Sex – everything you need to know

What is defined as ‘rubber’?

If you’re already a rubberman then you probably know how to describe the material. But for those who aren’t certain, rubber is often lumped in with latex whereas in fact, it’s a whole different ball game. Latex is a shiny, more PVC type of material which has a lot more stretch and flex. In comparison, rubber is more matte in appearance, less shiny and much thicker. Continue…

Fun Sensory Deprivation Sex Games to play with your Gay Escort

Part of the thrill of being with your gay escort is that you get to call the shots. If there are games you want to play, scenarios you’d like played out or role play to satisfy your desires, then all of these, plus more, will be available to you with your escort. Sensory deprivation is at the lighter end of the BDSM scale, if that’s your thing. Continue…